Luckily, I don't believe in a word of the New Testament, so I am certainly not filled with "displeasure with what God ... says". And I assure you that it is your very attitude that turned me off of Christianity so many years ago.
I'm no fan of any religion what claims its got the only way to salvation. Judiasm is quite clear that it does not consider itself the sole path to G-d. That, to me, is one of its greatest draws -- the lack of smugness.
You just proved my point exactly. Jesus says, no one comes to the Father but by me, and then explains why in thousands of words. What Jesus says in the Bible is what you you don't like because He says there is only one way. But, you say what turns you off to Christianity is MY ATTITUDE of believing there is only one way. Amazing.