[liliana]

i have heard of good outcomes. my son-in-law was never better than after surgery and another young man i know thought it was the best thing he ever did for himself. i hope that everything goes well for you and i sure understand why you're scared, it's only natural.

[Ciexyz]

If you have religious faith, you may want to ask people from your house of worship to pray with you about this surgery. It'll give you peace of mind about whatever course of action you decide. And you can pray that the Lord guides you to the physician that can give you the best treatment. And you can ask the Lord to give wisdom to your physician.