For now let me just say that I think there is some degree of misunderstanding between us, but as to the specifics, I'll have to get back to them at a later time. As this thread has gotten somewhat unwieldy, I'll reply to you in Freepmail when I get the chance.
Thank you for your thoughful and courteous reply.
Later...
Understand though, like any other issue, our prayers are not always answered according to our will but rather His will. All we can do is try ... .