Your answers substantiate their point.
Their key failing is that they can't recognize that fact.
At first glance it may seem to bolster their position but in fact it causes their whole ideology to crumble.
For the female of the species, every fiber of her frame
Proves her launched for one sole issue, armed and engined for the same,
And to serve that single issue, lest the generations fail,
The female of the species must be deadlier than the male.
But suppose it's true. So what? It's the nature of men to be more aggressive than women. It's a fact of life, like gravity. Blaming "patriarchy" for war is like blaming the science of plane building for bringing down the World Trade Center. This is how God created us.
The secret of civilization is how to redirect male power into productive venues. It's difficult, as current events demonstrate, but it's our only option. What would the world be like without men? I am not sure, but I (as a guy) would probably not want to live there. On the other hand, hmmm...