Then what do we do with this, the taking of children when judgment is handed down?
I'd say that's a pretty tough one for you to reconcile with the belief in a just and loving God.
Then what do we do with this, the taking of children when judgment is handed down?
You recognize one of two things.
Either the God you worship cannot be reconciled with the notion of a just and loving God.
Or
Those who chronicled his exploits, misattributed great evil to him.
The taking of innocent lives is evil.
It does not suddenly become good, when you attribute it to God.