I live in Va. and was in NJ about a month ago. I could see the Empire State Building from my hotel room. All I could think was, there used to be buildings there and now they're gone. And all those people are dead. And all those babies who've been born since who'll never know their daddies because they died at the hand of terrorists.... I talked to the guy at the front desk of the hotel about it. He said he was driving somewhere and saw the whole thing from his car. It was like he was haunted. I cannot imagine what it is like to live with it the way the folks in NY/NJ have to every day. I just can't imagine.
It still makes me angry. I don't think I'll ever not be angry about it. But maybe I'll feel better when Saddam, OBL, et. al. are dead.