notice how Jill’s sleeves are long to cover the wrinkly veiny hand skin? feet that look so bad as hers should not be in shoes like that. The woman has no common sense of dressing for her age and shape.
She reminds me of a one-time cheerleader that as a girl was a cute blond who received a lot of male attention. Dumb, but vain, and used her looks to land a big man on campus. Achieving that goal at 18 or 19 is the end of any significant personal development. From then on she is a co-dependent, enmeshed barnacle who lives through her husband, blind to his and her own reality.