Did she introduce y’all as “ here are my children, none of whom I wanted” ?
That you actually became aware of that fact is a bit scary. Did she tell you over a cup of coffee?
no, she was a bit more subtle but yeah she told me.
Plus the fact that after I was born she slept on the couch for the rest of her life. I guess that was the only way she could make sure she did not have any more kids.