I HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO SYMPATHY.
There is a WIDE VARIETY of things a person can do that are interesting. But you have to FIND such things.
Due to medical reasons I had no control over—I also am childless.
I am single by my own volition. Had a wonderful man in my life many years ago & haven’t found even a pale comparison.
I am WAAAAAAAY over 50. MOVED 2 times since age 50 & did massive sweat equity in a foreclosure property & big improvements in a new property. EVERYTHING I OWN IS PAID FOR.
Did NOT spend my time whining with a glass of wine constantly in hand with only other whiners. DO NOT EVEN DRINK.
IF all these women can see/say is “WHY ME?”——they have to realize they deliberately took every single step it took to get them where they are. The mirror tells the truth.
DID I do some unconventional things??? SURE-— bought a chain saw to clean up the foreclosure property. NEVER HAD EVEN HELD ONE PRIOR....used up 7 chains (NOW TROPHIES) & am on gallon #13 of chain oil. BUT made enough profit to buy 3rd property for CASH.
But there is no time for whining. WEEDS are not listening.
Horses can tell TIME & they KNOW when it is feeding time. DOG can count-— knows that 1 is not 3 bone treats—2 is not not-—BUT 3 is. SMART CRITTERS.
Property & livestock to care for & maintain.
Have a LARGE cadre of friends I can call on if I need them...but am doing fine with what I have.
I try to NOT abuse the help they willing give me.
LEARNED THIS A LONG TIME AGO:
“THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A RUT & A GRAVE IS THE DEPTH”
I am childless due to cancer in my 20’s I was married for 27 years husband took off with some Twinkie who was 20 years younger than he was YET my life is full of activities!! I have also returned to work part time AND YES I HAVE A CAT, all of you cat haters out there, I LOVE dogs however dogs need a lot of training AND you can’t just leave for a day and leave them alone!!