She’s gone.
Still have the stereo. Worked out best for both of us.
I have a bunch of older amps/receivers but they can’t hold a candle to the new stuff unless they get refurbished. The capacitors go bad with age. Our financial advisor told us “It’s time to buy the things you have always wanted”. Ironically, someone gave me the Vandersteens.
Fine music requires a taste for it, and an understanding of the hearts of its composers for a full appreciation of the words and chord progressions that carry one along.
Without the bonding and intimacy of that shared experience, the relationship will likely, in time, falter.