You can’t say that all lesbians are ugly. There’s some mighty fine “lipstick lesbians” out there. I know because I occasionally hung out with a few when I was young. I was friends with the coven queen who took a liking to me because she said I was “different” than other guys. I went to a party of hers once where I was the only guy there and every woman there was super fine. I’m talking way beyond movie start good looks. They would talk about how stupid men were and how men would fall at their feet and kiss their ass just because of their looks. Oddly enough one exceptionally pretty girl there took a liking to me but then the coven queen (who was supposed to be my friend) attempted to put the kibosh on that. But I would have to say these particular girls were the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. It’s like lesbos are either super ugly or super fine with very few in between.
I have had similar experience except that the “lipstick lesbian” was the needle in the haystack. Pretty rare commodity.
My wife and daughter both show and breed dogs. They show them at confirmation shows like you see on TV. There is a much larger percentage of gay men and women in the dog show business than the normal population. There are also a lot of middle aged and older women whose kids have left the nest.
This is because DOGS GIVE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE to their owners.
They do not judge. They do not care if you are queer, bisexual, straight, black, white, Asian. It does not matter to the dog. Those dogs are their substitute babies. Now CATS, they are judgemental.
In all the gay men and women I know from dog shows, I can only think of one or two lipstick lesbians. There are tons of bull dykes and big fat lesbians. There are also a lot of gay men who are very good looking, but they like young boys. You want to watch your son around them.
FYI, in the movie “Best in Show” the characters were based on real people.