Too bad there are so few Scriptures detailing The Husband Of Noble Character.
Joseph, he took Mary as his wife, “being a righteous man” then was given direct Divine guidance to accept her even though expecting.
He also was a dedicated carpenter, and followed the direct divine instructions taking the child into Egypt, and following the instructions of Mosaic Law.
He didn’t question the Angel ever, as Zacharias did.
“Husbands, love your wives” is in Ephesians.
Christ is our model, how did he treat women?
Christian media has filled that in. Evangelical Karen has 20 books on him. And because you are not-it, and don’t embody those 20 books well enough, you aren’t “God’s Best”. If you are 73%, you are clearly not an answer to prayer.