That is why we HS’ed both are kids....back in the 80’s
Same here for 4 - 70s into the 90s. My daughter is homeschooling her three boys. The 13 y.o. has a regular correspondence with an engineering association and the 4 yo. is voluble and articulate at an adult level except for what he is articulate about. The 9 yo is a reader. There is no TV in the house and the boys are not allowed access to the computer or to cell phones except one that only makes phone calls.