RE: about your being polite.
We are allowed to reference Angry Black Woman Syndrome as it is even discussed by persons of color in scholarly journals.
I worked for two (count ‘em) at a university. Not fun.
“This archetype characterizes the Black woman as experiencing disappointment, displeasure, bitterness or rage because of her significant other. The term has also been generalized to refer to Black women who show extreme emotion.”
This is from Harvard so it must be highly erudite:
Diversity And Inclusion——
The “Angry Black Woman” Stereotype at Work
by Daphna Motro, Jonathan B. Evans, Aleksander P.J. Ellis, and Lehman Benson III
Harvard Business Review. January 31, 2022
https://hbr.org/2022/01/the-angry-black-woman-stereotype-at-work
Many thanks for this most useful information (ammunition, as you may prefer) which I will put to excellent use. Cheers!