“Blaming others and not taking personal responsibility.
Example: In the mid 1960’s, Pres LBJ-a democrat-gave the Black democrat women welfare payments if they had kids and no man to support them so they would stay on the democrat plantation, taking away the incentives for many to have a healthy, supportive family with a father as a positive male role model. and they are still hiding behind that excuse as well as the original centuries old one-I think the rest of us have had enough of the whole mess-people need to grow up and take personal responsibility-get the f*** off that dem plantation and live in the real world...
Good point that making it financially worse for the woman to have the man living with her and the children was a game changer.