doesn’t sound like the “American” was interested in marriage. More likely he was interested in a pump and dump. So I don’t feel too bad for him.
All true. If you are an older man, I don't think you truly understand the dating scene in America. Right now, there's no incentive for an American man to "settle down". So that's why an American man is only interested in a pump and dump.
So why don't we change our laws to support marriage?