I thought the issue was Desi having to put up with his wacky wife?
And I do think you can’t whine about stupid men on TV if they were reliably paired with stupider women.
It was an observation of two young boys in the early 60s, what you now choose to label whining.
The only shows you mentioned was one from the 1970s and the aired 3 Stooges shorts.
While there has been writing on this topic this was merely an exchange of opinions of what we were seeing in the 50s and 60s, you are welcome to yours.