I don’t know why people like to state such negative things. Words have power and should not be used to state victims of horrible situations to have horrible outcomes.
I prefer, since God can do anything He wants, to leave their amount of healing and what may come of their lives up to Him. I pray these kids get to know Him if they don’t already. God can do miracles for them and through them.
I’ve had trauma courtesy of my parents. God has helped me cope but I am never going to be who I was before the trauma.