When it comes to marriage there is only downside for the guys.
I tell the younger guys, go out to the club and find a woman that hates your guts, buy her a house, then give her half your pay for the next twenty years.
I think with online dating and Tinder, there is the “lots of fish in the sea” syndrome. People think if someone isn’t ‘perfect’ they can always find somebody better.
Then one day, they wake up and realize that there wasn’t anybody better, but it’s too late.