And yet I know 3 women, my mother included, that got dumped after 20 years+, and now have high paying jobs. My mother makes more then I do, and her only job was scooping ice cream before they got married. works from home as an admin making 30-35 an hour.
stop moaning about how unfair life is and do something about it. It’s quite possible, contrary to what your saying.
and stop being sexist about how its okay to rape someone decades of their earned money, because your too damn lazy to live in the present and get a damn job. splitting the earned assets during marriage is already enough.
I am not moaning. I argue for justice.
I have not been dumped and am doing just fine.
However had I been dumped, after no college, no career, and homeschooling and rearing five kids through high school, I really should have received life time alimony. Because I earned it and got exploited and used, in that case.