The only women I know of who were "alienated" were liberal college grads between the ages of 25 - 40 and blacks. These voters alienated themselves. Unless you offer to pay them hard cash for their votes, no amount of spending will change their minds. However, if they are paying their own bills, the Biden economy might wake them up.
I live in one of the five states (Wisconsin) that Trump needed to win. Yes, there was ballot harvesting etc. but without question, in the WOW counties….particularly Waukesha, Trump lost the soccer moms and traditionally conservative women. They are not liberal educated, single or black. Those women hate Trump. If you don’t believe it, you’re missing a key element in our state. It was a component that cost us the state Supreme Court election two weeks ago. It’s easy to search and find reports of how Waukesha county women/wives, don’t like trump.