Nope. Paraphrasing what I have been told by several Chinese that I have known for a very long time. Long enough for them to feel comfortable opening up to me. Most Americans will never experience this level of clarity from Chinese that they know.
You make an assumption.
I’ve have Chinese co-workers, and some have not only become friends they have been guests over the years.
We have interesting conversations on all subjects. Some we agree upon. Some we don’t.
You paint with a broad brush. That makes you perfect for this site.