[ConservativeInPA]

As long as black women claim and/or believe they are treated unfairly, people will treat them different. Personally, I have nothing in common with a person who thinks that way and don’t want anything to do with people like that. When a woman is a lesbian that’s a definite no-go zone. When a woman exhibits bat crazy behavior regardless of race or sexual preference I want zero to do with them. When a woman disrespects her body and is a fat pig, just get out of my sight. Call that unfair if you want. My unfairness is simply wanting to be left alone. I don’t want the drama.

God intended women to be feminine, nurturing and pleasant.

Speaking of women, where’s Laz? I haven’t seen him post for quite awhile.

[SamAdams76]

As long as black women claim and/or believe they are treated unfairly, people will treat them different.

That nugget of wisdom applies to all groups of people.

The key to "being equal" is to assert yourself as equal and not be looking for a hand up. For as soon as you put yourself in that position, you are only reinforcing the notion that you (or the group you identify with) are indeed inferior and cannot make it without the help of their implied superiors.

This is especially true with the feminist movement. For so long as they keep celebrating "first woman to do this" and "first woman to do that", they continue to treat these achievements as something special instead of something ordinary - matter of fact.

The Asian race for the most part took that approach here in the United States. Once a race deemed inferior, they simply studied hard, worked hard, and showed that they were every much as capable as everybody else with none of the "look at me" fanfare.