[metmom]

It’s not training..

It’s natural to the male and female mind.

The trick is to learn what the other thinks like and accommodate them as much as possible IOW, men can brush up their crumbs and toss them in the trash or at least the sink, when they make a mess.

Making a mess and expecting others to clean up after you is rude at best.

[bankwalker]

Making a mess and expecting others to clean up after you is rude at best.

It's usually a timing issue. I fully intend to clean up after myself, but on MY schedule, not hers ... so she does it right away. That's not me being rude. that's her being bossy and impatient ... in other words a NAG.