America's crap media, which is controlled by government social-engineers, leftists and corporations, pretend half of America doesn't exist.
Lots of my kids' friends are conservative, Christian, traditionalist. That's exactly how they do it - they meet others through church groups, sports activities, classmates, or family friends. They do NOT put themselves out on social media like cheap meat on sale.
You would never know that if you follow "accepted" media
My daughter met her husband playing board games at college
It’s a thing
Some of these youngsters