Husband turned rat and turned her in. He could have just left her, but he got the law involved. And the boy shoulda said he didn’t know a thing and clam up. But he’s young so I’ll give him a pass with a warning to not reoffend.
Poor lady chooses weak men.
The main problem was she had abused her position of authority. If the gender roles were switched, obviously it is much worse. To the guys, it's a piece of tail. But girls are vulnerable at that age.
Maybe he didn't want to get reamed in divorce court! Ever thought of that? Maybe there are minor children involved, and he doesn't want to share custody with this nut-job!
And the boy shoulda said he didn’t know a thing and clam up. But he’s young so I’ll give him a pass with a warning to not reoffend.
By then it was too late - the husband had certifiable text messages proving that the two had been "carrying on." In such a case, the boy's best option may have been to feign victimhood - otherwise, he might have been cited as "co-respondent" in the divorce proceedings and prosecuted for "alienation of affections." (To be fair, I'm reaching with that one.)
Poor lady chooses weak men.
I see nothing to criticize in the husband's actions - he's probably bracing himself for ugly divorce proceedings and doesn't want to lose his shirt to this female philanderer.
And, yeah: High school freshmen probably will not cut a particularly chivalrous figure under such circumstances. But what else would you expect?! Should he "sacrifice himself" for her?!
Regards,
If he made up his mind that he was divorcing her over it, it was a smart decision to involve the law.
“Husband turned rat and turned her in. He could have just left her, but he got the law involved. And the boy shoulda said he didn’t know a thing and clam up. But he’s young so I’ll give him a pass with a warning to not reoffend.”
She took away his high school years.
Re: 23 - your comment says more about your value system and moral compass than you realize.
She could be a nymphomaniac. Husband couldn’t get rid of her for adultery only. Wanted a charge that would stick. He obviously didn’t want to get divorced and have to pay any alimony. The spouse being a sex offender or molester is more often seen in wife vs. husband divorce cases where husband is accused of the crime.