Guys, Stu was a friend of mine. Was he weird? YES. But he was also VERY intelligent. He owned/ran the local movie theater, and we worked on some high tech projects together at a former employer. “Modern day trans” people would have hated him, as he didn’t talk about it all the time. He didn’t want to convert anyone, etc. He was just being himself.
“The happiest day of my life was the day I stopped giving a fuck about what people thought of me” he told me one day.
So, crack jokes if you must, but just know that Stu/Carla was a good person.
sorry you lost your friend... guess he just wanted to do himself.
Now I feel sad that I posted a gratuitous meme in the thread :-/
To point out a very obscure medical point, women do have a vestigial prostate. It's akin to males having vestigial breasts... You could win bets at the bar in the doctors lounge with this useless bit of medical trivia. (I'm just kidding there is no bar in the doctor's lounge..it has always been BYOB by tradition)
Here's a blurb from a paper..
------------ While considered in-depth herein, any doubters of the existence of the female prostate, will learn that it possesses all the components, i.e., glands, ducts, smooth musculature, characterizing the male prostate, including the cellular, enzymatic and other factors necessary for its exocrine and endocrine function.
While discussing the existence of the female prostate and aspects of the foregoing, including the presence of prostate-specific antigen (PSA) as an explanation for PSA in the serum of females, some 10+ years ago with the eminent urologist Willard E. Goodwin (UCLA School of Medicine
Sorry for your loss. Laissez-faire. I’ll keep out of your private life and you keep out of mine. America once was a tolerant place where the intolerant were the bad guys.