I just thought your “Gay Valley” comment was just so cute. Casting aspersion upon an entire region, and an entire university, and the Penn Staters on this board, put you on my A$$hole list. Bless your heart.
“Graham B. Spanier showed considerable curiosity about sex, writing papers on several varieties of it, premarital, extramarital and - this one has attracted the attention of conservative bloggers - swinging or, as he and his co-author called it in the early 1970s, mate swapping. His primary focus, though, was on what broke marriages apart, what kept them together, and how people adjusted to divorce and remarriage.”
Spanier, noted wife swapping scholar.