Daughter, SIL & 2 kids were sick & diagnosed in December & even tho we had dinner with them the night before their symptoms started, we didn’t get it. This was during the time we had our hellacious 5-day moving “adventure,” living on toast & coffee & only getting 3 hours of sleep a night! Perfect candidates for a virus & yet nothing, FFS.
I think I had it in early April. Spent two weeks out of it, several days feeling freezing cold and in bed. Very tired.
And like you, they weren’t testing unless you could prove you had contact with a known, tested positive COVID case.
I suspect I had it, and so do many others in my area, in early January. Had many of the symptoms of it, but the experts say it is impossible because other experts decided it wasn’t in the US at that time, despite unrestricted travel form China when it was spreading rapidly their since at least Nov.