Of course, you could say that about ANY drug. Aspirin would not have been approved under today’s standards, and has over a 10X higher fatality rate than the J&J vaccine. Penicillin had a higher fatality rate than Merck’s “deadly” Vioxx. But you go ahead and clutch your safety blanket.
Difference is I don’t need the vaccine so you comparison is void.
Also, I take medication because I am trying to alleviate symptoms or get a vaccine to prevent a serious illness or if I am at great risk. Not because everyone else wants me to get it so they feel good.