Posted on 03/08/2021 7:56:39 AM PST by Kaslin
The interview was loaded with apparent revelations. But there's absolutely no way around the he-said-she-said dynamic that characterizes this conflict.
Regardless of how many sit-down interviews they grant or how real their reality show gets, we’re destined to observe the royal family from afar. Oprah Winfrey’s interview with Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, which aired Sunday night, ostensibly peeled back the curtain on their troubled relationship with the House of Windsor.
Of course, we don’t actually know that it did anything of the sort. The newly minted Californians coordinated the primetime special to tell their side of the story. That’s how this goes. According to Harry and Meghan, who left their roles as senior members of the royal family, they did “everything [they] could to make it work.” The queen may have a different take. (Although we likely won’t hear it in a splashy TV interview.)
Markle told Oprah she’d experienced “suicidal thoughts,” explaining, “I went to the institution and I said that I needed to go somewhere to get help…and I was told that I couldn’t.”
“I went to one of the most senior people to get help. I was told I couldn’t because it wouldn’t be good for the institution,” said Markle.
Harry on his father Prince Charles:
There is a lot to work though there. I feel really let do. He’s been through something similar.
He knows what pain feels like.
And Archie is his grandson.
I will always love him but there is a lot of hurt that has happened#OprahMeghanHarry— Chris Ship (@chrisshipitv) March 8, 2021
Harry on Prince William: The relationship is one of "space at the moment" and time heals all things hopefully.
Meghan: I regret believing them (the Palace) when they said I would be protected.#OprahMeghanHarry— Chris Ship (@chrisshipitv) March 8, 2021
“I’m comfortable knowing we did everything we did to make it work.”
Both Harry and Meghan tell Oprah they did everything they could to make their roles work, but ultimately the institution and family let them down.#OprahMeghanHarry
— Omid Scobie (@scobie) March 8, 2021
Prince Harry says the Royal Family cut him off financially at the start of 2020 (after announcing plans to step back from royal roles) but says he was able to afford security for his family because of the money his mother, Princess Diana, left behind.#OprahMeghanHarry
— Omid Scobie (@scobie) March 8, 2021
Harry: If it were not for Meghan, I wouldn’t not have been able to leave. I felt trapped as well.
I was trapped but I didn’t know I was trapped.#OprahMeghanHarry— Chris Ship (@chrisshipitv) March 8, 2021
Harry says the royal family has an issue with race “For this union and the specifics around race there were opportunities for my family to show some public support. No one from my family ever said anything. That hurts.” #HarryandMeghanonOprah #MeghanAndHarry
— Roya Nikkhah (@RoyaNikkhah) March 8, 2021
Meghan: They took away Harry's security. I wrote letters to his family – I accept that I couldn't;t have it. But I said "please keep keep my husband safe. Please don’t pull his security. And they said it’s not just possible".#OprahMeghanHarry
— Chris Ship (@chrisshipitv) March 8, 2021
The couple said they felt “trapped” as royals. Meghan said she begged unsuccessfully for Harry’s security to remain. Harry said his family “literally” cut him off, and he’s living on money left by his mother.
In reference to rumors swirling around her wedding, Markle claimed it was actually Kate Middleton who made her cry, despite reports to the contrary. Harry said his relationship with Prince William involves “space at the moment.”
They were married in a private ceremony three days before their public wedding. They’re now expecting a baby girl in the summer, but want only two children. Floating a huge allegation, Markle said before the birth of her son there were internal “concerns and conversations about how dark his skin might be when he’s born.”
The interview was loaded with apparent revelations. But there’s absolutely no way around the he-said-she-said dynamic that characterizes this conflict.
The crown wants to protect itself. Harry and Meghan want to protect themselves as well. Given the necessarily public nature of their spat, both sides must now manipulate the media in their favor to succeed. Whether you love Markle or hate her, what you’re seeing is a curated media character striving to achieve an illusion of authenticity.
I confess to being viscerally irritated by Americans’ palace intrigue over the royal family. Women project onto royals because their privilege makes it seem okay, so controversial royals are incredible gossip fodder, like homecoming queens and trust-fund princesses. British tabloids are a different beast, but it seems inevitable that Markle’s admitted struggles with fame-induced mental health problems will spark comparisons with Britney Spears.
For the public, it seems like a trade-off. Markle and Spears get fame and money, so we get to joke when they gain ten pounds or have an off day. We get to speculate about their family drama and they get to jet set. Is it fair? Tabloid culture is certainly a response to demand. Demand is not always or even often broadly moral.
Markle is notoriously sanctimonious. She lectures the world from her position of immense power and privilege. She has the vapid politics of a Zinn-chugging liberal arts graduate. Depending on which rumors you believe, she’s not very nice either. But who knows what’s real in a battle for the narrative? It’s not possible, so you might as well just stop investing in the fight.
At play here are deep international dynamics, the trading of literal royalty for America’s decadent version of it in Hollywood. Emotive millennials pointedly bucking their conservative family’s tradition of stoicism, swapping dignified roles and their inevitable constraints for self-indulgence.
We’re all projecting a lot onto this couple. The comment that struck me most was Harry’s claim his family is “scared” of British tabloids and acts accordingly. Powerful people being scared of the free press? What an incredible concept.
Here in the states, where Harry and Meghan have chosen to make their home, reality star Bethenny Frankel deleted a critical tweet that read, “Cry me a river…the plight of being a game show host, fairly unknown actress, to suffering in a palace, w tiaras & 7 figure weddings for TWO WHOLE YEARS to being a household name w @Oprah on speed dial, fetching 7 m for interviews, hundreds of millions in media deals.” For a couple with the world at their fingertips, it’s true that Harry and Meghan do a lot of whining.
After blowback from users and outlets like TMZ, Frankel deleted the tweet and added, “I watched M & H sit down. Emotional distress & racism must feel suffocating & powerless. I’m a polarizing, unfiltered(often to a fault)flawed person w a voice. When I heard of the interview, during a pandemic, it felt like a surprising choice. I’m sorry if it hurt or offended you.”
American tabloids defend rich and powerful celebrities as long as they cloak themselves in vague wokeness. That makes California a much warmer home for Harry and Meghan for reasons beyond the weather. Here, they can have their cake and eat it too.
For all our personal and cultural projections onto the couple, “Harry and Meghan” is always just our interpretation of the family’s media tug-of-war. We have little access to the reality at hand, which is carefully clouded by the resources of enormously powerful people. Why bother squinting?
Don Draper said it best. Love her or hate her, the best approach to Meghan Markle is simply not to think about her at all.
Everything is pure DRAMA for Meghan. EVERYTHING.
Can’t get along with her family. Now isolating Harry from his (non-biological) family.
The girl has some serious psychological issues. She is trash.
Yes, absolutely true. She may come to realize that someday. Meanwhile, I wonder how the children will eventually view circumstances and how they missed out on being a part of such a long tradition. Meghan is like so many people these days and seems to gravitate towards what is shiny and bright, but all that glitters is not gold. What I see here, aside from other things, is that she has given up nothing and has had her husband give up everything: his family, his title, his tradition, and his connection to his past. Of course, he has free will.
I saw the clip where she tells Oprah about the private ceremony. It comes across as a lie. Harry is not even paying much attention to it and probably wondering why she’s even saying such nonsense. Meanwhile, that comment about the big ceremony being “for the world.” Seriously? She is quite full of herself.
Good points.
Wife (Canadian, so the issue is vaguely relevant) watched it.
The interview is assuredly a marketing video designed to make them look better than they are. They may not be as bad as some contend, but there’s a reason they’re basically disowned by the Windsors (and I’m sure it’s not about race).
Time to stop this infatuations with noble birthed individuals.
I met one, actually closely related to several kings, and I happened to be around him for a while, he was a total idiot. One could almost feel sorry about him, how many mental and physical problems he had.
The politicians are corrupt, but the kings and noblemen are so inbred, it stinks. In this time, why anybody bothers to listen to them?
If that really was Archie’s first word, it probably sounded something like; “Ca-Ca-Dye”.
Both parents seem to be compulsive liars, so we won’t ever know for sure.
I can’t wait to hear what the Archbishop of Canterbury has to say about the earlier “wedding.” They may have exchanged some private vows, but it wasn’t a real, legal wedding. Does Dingbat not know that?
“The fact they moved to California when every right thinking human is doing everything to bail from there proves those bozo’s have a collective IQ of 50”
It was all about the Benjamin’s, and being around equally loathsome rich people in the Hollywood scene.
i don’t think a lot of people realize Charlotte carries Diana’s name. of course that doesn’t stop Meghan from fulfilling her Diana fantasies.
Charlotte’s a cutie and her pics look like she has a mischievous personality 😀
“Frankel was probably threatened.”
Maybe Serena (Tennis Diva/Crybaby) threatened to drive to Bethany’s house and sit on her.
“You ain’t nuttin!”
I'm concerned, Harry, that you are now truly trapped...and actually unaware of it.
You've had your consciousness raised, by an expert Consciousness Raiser...
cute - mischievous - and probably well-tested by those 2 brothers. she’ll be a contender!
Harry just needs to become a woman now like Jenner did to really rake in the bucks!
BAHAHHAHA
sorry attention whores, but your time is up
Right. This pathetic couple will end up like Wallis Simpson and David Windsor, or whatever his name was. He admired Hitler and was a useless individual. They spent their socialite life in France doing who knows what. He was known as someone who inspired men’s clothing fashions and that’s about it. He was a heavy smoker who ended up with throat cancer.
The Queen visited Wallis and her uncle shortly before he died. Her mother would have nothing to do with either of them.
Now the royal family has the same problem—a divorced American social climber intrudes and carries off one of their princes. Why do Americans have to always be the villains in these soap operas?
She said mean tabloid stories (that she never read) and the fact that the “Firm” took her passport, license, and keys induced her to contemplate suicide. That’s it.
Wow! I wish that’s all I had to worry about.
That pre-wedding “wedding” seems to be the big story in the UK right now.
We haven’t even seen these grifters on TV yet and their story is being torn to shreds.
p.s. I would abolish the Royal Family in a heartbeat.
Unbelievable and maybe if Oprah would have done a little research, she would have known this and asked, “how about talking to your mother who is educated in a mental health capacity.” Nah, didn’t fit the narrative.
The one thing that the royal family is definitely NOT noted for is their collective intelligence. The same goes for Hollywood losers. This interview simply reinforces what's already well known.
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