J,
You don’t have to defend your own heterosexuality.
...and like everything else in life, until your face to face with it, a family member or a close friend you simply can’t relate.
I get that. That’s what I’m here to help you with.
The Kinsey Scale exists and it’s real.
...and some on the spectrum are a better shot than you. Some are more Christian and way more amazing. Several have brought you joy and you didn’t even know it.
Thanks but you’re confusing the topic. I have gay friends and co-workers and they are mostly fine people. That’s not the point here.
The point is being gay is a choice but you suggest they are born that way but pointing to a scale as proof. I disagree. That scale you reference is not scientific evidence of anything and being face to face with a gay person does nothing to prove the claim you made. The gay men I know say they chose the lifestyle so there is that.
The truth is this issue has been studied, and many conclude there is no gay gene that can accurately predict because most if not all of the preference is caused by environmental factors.
I think you’re confusing preference with being gay when reference to that scale. I agree there are men who are effeminate and women who are like me but that does not make them gay.