“That’s how a real loser thinks.”
No, that’s how a realist thinks. If you sit down to a rigged poker game and lose all your money once, you’re not a loser. If you keep going back to the same rigged poker game every week and giving them your money over and over again, that makes you a loser.
Every loser I’ve ever met talks like you talk. “I’m just being realistic.” They use that as to why they should not try in the first place, or they use that as the reason they should quit and not try again if the first time didn’t succeed.
Trump had to try about 20 times in court to get the wall built. THANK GOD you weren’t his advisor. “You tried and a judge ruled against you. Don’t bother cause they’ll do that again. Be realistic”.