I hate it. To me, it conveys weakness, victimhood, and fear. I understand we do it for specific things:
- For thirty days (or a month) after the death of a current, former president, or president-elect.
- For ten days after the death of a current vice president, current or retired chief justice, or current Speaker of the House of Representatives.
- From the day of death until interment of an Associate Justice of the Supreme Court, a secretary of an executive or military department, a former vice president or a former
- Speaker of the House, the President Pro Tempore of the Senate,[70] or the governor of a state, territory, or possession.
- On the day of death and the day after for a Member of Congress.
- On Memorial Day until noon.
- Upon presidential proclamation, usually after the death of other notable figures or tragic events.
It is that last one a disagree with most vehemently.