All my sympathies for the family situation. But, enjoy the leftovers!
My lefty brother and cousin couldn’t handle me offering them a glass of Trump wine last year. The irony of them going off about Trump being a grifter was too ripe. And after a couple glasses with a side of their tears, I’ve decided that unless they can enjoy a free meal in the company of family that loves and welcomes them regardless of their stupidity, they aren’t welcome to ruin my holiday.