Thankfully I live in the somewhat free state of Texas. I've completely ignored the whole wearing a mobile petri dish on my face throughout it all. My favorite local bar opened back up way before the 'rules' said they could. I've been doing what I can to patronize them and associate with other folk who don't give a damn about masks.
A lot of people died here; looks like we have 183 deaths per 100,000 compared to your 61 per 100,000. Even if they are inflated, the spring spike left a mark here in the NYC metro area that won’t be gone any time soon.