IMO these people need not preach moral values to the flock. They need to find another line of work. As for the wife she was wrong getting herself into an adulterous relationship. Hasn’t she heard of a divorce.
The problem word is "work." He was handed a gravy "position" from "daddy's" efforts. She was a stereotypical bored executive's wife with too much time on her hands and an average (read that as "boring") marriage.
She thought that by summoning her "inner whore" she could find validation that she's still beautiful, desirable, attractive, sensual.......... Everything Hollywood tells her she's entitled to have.