“The teenage should have been taught to obey the rules wherever he goes.”
1984 much? North Korea kompliance kommittee? No way I teach my teens and adolescents unquestioning obedience. I teach them to evaluate situations and do what’s right.
It isn’t total obedience. It is following the rules of business where you are. You are not required to go to a particular place of business. Go someplace else.
If a friend of your son lived at home and his parent didn’t allow smoking, would it be OK to for your son to smoke there?