Thanks. It also stems from a couple other facts. I work in a small group that includes two guys. 1) 53 year old with a high school senior, going to college next year; and 2) a 56 year old Iraqi war I vet, with three kids. One already in college (freshman) and two in late high school (Sophomore and senior). Even though I was the one that started the office, and have been there for 19 1/2 years, I told the Chairman of the Board that if someone needed to sit on the bench for awhile, sit me. I couldn't live with myself if one of the others got benched, and I didn't.
Dont know your faith but that is real Christian charity.
I have the suspicion there is a lot of that going on. We dont see the huge majority of it; true charity is usually not ostentatious.
God sees.