“Gaslighting” is when you notice someone doing suspicious things, challenge them about it, and they explain it away as you being crazy. Passive-aggression is tougher for me to define, so I looked it up lol. “Indirect resistance” is one feature, say incessant procrastination and the like. The P-A personality doesn’t say “no,” but will subtly and quietly sabotage whatever you think they’ve agreed to do.
Accusations of these behaviors are favorites by the “b cluster” personalities.
Maybe I was passive aggressive. Is sarcasm a type of passive aggresiveness?