Considering how many old people are warehoused in nursing homes whose kids NEVER come to visit, it's a wonder some of those grandkids even know that they have grandparents.
I can’t complain. My grandkids are still infants to pre-teens, and one of my kids is only 17 and living at home, and I talk to them, either in person or on Messenger. The nursing home will never take me alive. I’ll keep a vial of Corona virus handy in case there’s ever any talk of that 20 years from now.