And that choice is usually made by someone who’s been sexually abused/raped by an older homosexual who targeted them for their own pleasure.
Correct.
I've learned that the abuse is generational.
Mother is as much to blame because she knows DAMN well what's going on. Her own reaction is probably a learned behavior from her own mother or female relatives who ignored the abuse from their husbands and other male relatives.
The good news is that the world is writing about it and it's occasionally on the news. Ignoring it seems to be a thing of the past. I hope SO.