I need to look through the Digest archives to see if I can find the original. I think some Freepers might be interested.
Long distance calls were just as you described back in 1950s British Columbia, but it usually took just a couple of minutes to get connected.
Heck, I remember when a long distance call was: “Hurry up and say ‘hi’ to your Uncle, this call is costing a fortune!”
I worked in a remote Red Chinese village called Shui-fu in the fall, winter and spring of 1976-1977. We were building and starting a new fertilizer plant.
There was one phone that us foreign visitors could use that was run off some large old-fashioned dry cells. For an international call, you had to reserve a full day in advance and they would come get you when the call was ready and your party was on the line.
I made only one call to my Mom to wish her Happy Birthday in January 1977. The call was mostly Happy Birthday, Mom! followed by What? I cant hear you and Huh, what did you say? and Can you hear me now? (it was great practice for future cellular technology!)
The ten minute call cost me $100 which is about $425 in todays dollars!
The radio play, The Hitchhiker, starring Orson Wells in available on YouTube has a scene where Wells is making a call across country to NY that pretty much illustrates what you said.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_vGz_Jbn54&t=31s&frags=pl%2Cwn
I remember my dad call his parents in Idaho from California sometimes telling the Operator what connections she had to make to complete the call. (I don’t know if they appreciated his help or not.)