I made it very clear. I am for independent Ukraine, without nukes, and without hatred of Russians based on that three parameters you have set.
When I say independent I mean truly independent but not in a sense that it is independent of Russia but dependent from something else.
Examine yourself! I never commented on Ukrainian nukes. I never commented on Ukrainian independence. I commented on why, historically, Ukrainians hold a lot of animus towards Russia, particularly Soviet Russia. When you decide next time that you want to exercise your penchant for projection, try not to impute arguments to others that they never made. And if I read your last sentence correctly, you want Russia and Ukraine to be merged except for true independence in ‘something else’.