I had bullies in school and had to deal with a fair amount of social concerns.
If I had committed suicide, it would have only been on me.
Your argument could be used to stop the good guys in all conflicts that could hurt or kill another, including war and crime situations. After all, all rapists, suicide bombers, murders, etc. caught in the act could wind up more holy than the Pope (whos not holy).
You should be against the use of deadly force anywhere for any reason. Are you such a snowflake?
No... there would have been shame, too, on the bullies.
This is one of the ways that conservatives, too, have segmented minds.