No! He is a boy and should be treated as a boy. The only truth here is his biological sex. The idea that one can have a gender that differs from one's true sex is BS!
My comments were for this particular child. They have begun to screw up his life. Especially with the parental differences. IMO he should have only one home, visitation by the other parent, stop all “transition” talk, no encouragement right now, just let the boy sort himself out, no therapists because they push transition. Homeschool him so he has no social pressure, keep him active in what he loves to do, and let him just be him. Let him wear what he chooses, etc. For now. But that won’t happen, I’m sure. Politics trumps his health. Sigh.