I do not conflate God's love for everyone with peoples' bad choices.
After all we have wars, Democrats, commies and Socialist.
While I have no use for Commies, etc. I do believe that God loves them all.
So if, say, a gent has only homosexual urges and attraction, are you saying his better choice to not to act on that, but to pretend to be hetero and attempt a marriage and family with a presumably deceived woman?