In a rare burst of wisdom during my teen years, I decided that any attached men were off limits to me.
I figured that any man who would cheat on his wife with me, would cheat on me with another woman.
I have no respect for that kind of lack of integrity.
My sister dated a man for a while who had been divorced, and of course, it was his wife’s fault.
But as the relationship went on, she said something didn’t feel right and they finally broke up, with him giving her some really lame excuse.
Makes his wife have a lot more credibility. He could paint her as the bad guy, but considering the way he was, she was probably a saint to put up with him as long as she did.But of course, he was the victim in it all.
My daughter dated a guy who was “in the middle of a divorce” with his supposed evil b#$@h of a wife. I didn’t think that sounded like someone good for her, and when I met him, and he wouldn’t look me in the eye, I was sure. Shortly thereafter, she found out he wasn’t even separated from his wife! Naturally, she dropped him.
My husband was divorced from his first wife for over 25 years when we met. He admits he wasn’t a perfect husband, but since she’s re-married SEVEN times, I’m pretty sure it was mostly her fault.