Ask her if it would just mean that you “hate” the people who demand a “right” to have relations with animals, because they are repellent? (Although I myself find it difficult to have “love” for any of these perverts. If I can manage it, it will have to be the love of Christ through me, not my own. And their evil sinful acts will still be repellant, just as sin should be to a Spirit-filled Christian. And if it’s a rebellious, unrepentant pervert, I’m not sure that I’m even required to have Christian love towards them. Just think what Jesus said is going to be the fate of the unrepentant in the last days.)
Sigh. Feel just the way you do. One of those topics wife and I can rarely talk about without anger. She knows some gay people as friends, so that might be part of it.