The problem is not of ability. It’s of unrealistic expectations. Feminism created that for us.
--- True, feminism did that.
Plus our entertainment culture --- movies, magazines, broadcast and electronic media --- which give the VERY STRONG, persistent, penetrating and persuasive impression that everybody is sexier, better-dressed, better-looking, and has a better career, better house, car(s), vacation-spot, and spouse, than you do.
Dude, our economy runs on envy.